I sympathise with the tens of thousands of disappointed students who are unlikely to secure a university place this year due to unprecedented demand. Like countless other anxious parents,  I am hoping my youngest son will lecture theatrebe successful in his application for next year, and the excited anticipation we felt when his elder brother was at this same stage and planning his new life is now clouded with uncertainty.

What is the deciding factor for university panels when they make their final decision? The uni James has set his heart on had 4.5 applicants per place in the last academic year, so assuming he gets the required grades, he has to write an outstanding, compelling and persuasive personal statement, as well as getting a great reference from his school.

The scramble for places is even worse this year as the Daily Mail reports that up to seven students are chasing each place through the clearing process as demand has soared. Applications have risen 12 per cent on last year to 660,953. Nearly half a million candidates accepted places last year but only 10,000 more places have been made available for 2010; it means that up to 250,000 university applicants face disappointment this year.

I have a friend whose daughter was on a gap year this year and due to start in September. Such is the shortage of uni places that she has been asked to take a second gap year. I also know a few students who dropped out for various reasons in the last couple of years, mainly because they had a change of heart over the topic they were studying, and have reapplied for different courses.

There are thousands of drop outs each year and one has to ask if they should be given priority for a new course over first-time students who are at risk of not having a chance at all. In England, 7.1% failed to complete their first year at uni in 2006-07 (7.4% overall in the UK).

In my view, and in these extraordinary times, I don’t think they should.