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Q: What makes normally truthful parents start lying through their teeth?

A: Meeting secondary schools’ admissions criteria.

Schools in Brighton and Hove are the first in the country to this year use a lottery system to allocate places for over subscribed schools. Letters informing parents of the decision will fall on their doormats tomorrow.

It is intended to be fairer to poorer families who cannot afford to live closer to popular schools. It means that families living close by could find they are forced to appeal, or have to travel three or miles to the nearest alternative.

It is all highly stressful and unfair.

The Brighton Argus has today reported how dozens of anxious parents have already started to form appeal cases, and I wonder if these could be challenged in the High Court.

I know from personal experience what a worrying time it is, how it causes sleepless nights and anxiety. We had to go to appeal so our eldest David could be admitted to the best local secondary school which is just out of our catchment area. It is an outstanding school, and other parents like me who wanted the best education for the child have fought tooth and nail to get their child admitted there.

David has dyspraxia and we appealed on medical grounds. I prepared my case in advance, gaining supportive statements from his doctor and paediatrician – and thankfully we were successful. David had his first taste of champagne that night as I opened a bottle to celebrate.

However, other parents, whose cases were based on how clever their child was and that they would not be able to reach their full potential at the less desirable school, were not.

We told the truth and won, but I know of parents who have lied and fabricated totally fictitious stores – and succeeded – to get their child a coveted school place.

Every day I have counted our blessings that David went to such an excellent school and gained brilliant results. It also automatically opened the door to James as a sibling.

But should parents have to agonise over their child’s education in this way? It is unimaginably stressful. I wonder how many government ministers would like their child’s school selected in such a cavalier fashion..

Can anyone suggest a fairer system? There is obviously a shortage of excellent schools with sufficient places to meet demand. But I really don’t see how a lottery system is fair.

Update 5 March: What do Brighton parents think about this? Today’s Times says: "Allocating secondary school places by lottery has split communities, created rows between friends, and led to a “dog’s dinner” of a system."

And this thought provoking report also in today’s Times highlights the anguish and despair faced by parents throughout the country over secondary school selection, some children have not even been allocated a place. Why should four children from family be forced to go to four different schools? Where is the logic in that? It is a total shambles.