DG_77254_22.tif With all political parties trying to win over women’s votes, their advisers may want to dip into a new book called If They Only Listened To Us: What Women Voters Want Politicians To Hear.

Soon after the 2004 presidential election, former New York Times journalist Melinda Henneberger interviewed 234 women in 12 states for their in-depth personal thoughts about politics and what they were looking for in the president they will elect in 2008.

They discussed policy issues high on the American woman’s agenda, including abortion and why many otherwise liberal pro-life Catholic women have switched parties over this issue, but continue to look for a way back to the Democrats with whom they agree on almost every other matter.

Henneberger discovered that women really wanted to be listened to, some women talked for hours, explaining how alienated they felt. It didn’t matter what background they came from, they still felt disregarded by both parties.

Henneberger describes a “shout culture” which exists in part to discourage precisely the kind of give-and-take and I-see-what-you-mean discussion that would help women work through what they think about and want from their government.

It seems from this book Bush won women’s votes because they found John Kerry an elitist and didn’t like his personality. That one point is so essential and cannot be underestimated, as I’m sure Gordon Brown, David Cameron and Ming Campbell are well aware. 

However, while female voters are keen to elect a woman as their president, they have doubts about the authenticity, likeability and voting record of Hillary Clinton. It doesn’t look as if she can count on much support from them.

So what do women voters want? As Henneberger discovered, they do not want to be spoken down to, which is what they disliked about John Kerry and the Democrats. 

As well as wanting to be listened to, I would say we want fairness and choices – why can’t all parents have the same choice as Ruth Kelly, for example, to send their child to the best school if he or she has special educational needs? Who is listening to other parents whose child is denied those same opportunities?