1_61_071107_queen2 We all know the Queen has the patience of aBushDM0507_468x308 saint, the greatest difficulty for her must be not to show surprise or annoyance at other people’s odd behaviour.

She must have known by now that they do things differently on the other side of the pond. Take George Bush’s wink, he probably thought he was being friendly and putting our monarch at her ease; at the end of the day, it was no big deal really, the Americans simply do not share our sense of formality.

So it is not surprising that the Queen looks somewhat startled, perhaps even exasperated, in this portrait by America’s celebrity photographer Annie Leibovitz. The Queen lost her cool in front of a BBC documentary team and stormed out of a photo shoot after being told she would look better without the crown, less dressy.

This Fox News report describes how the Americans regard our monarchy, there is no deference or regard at all for her regal position:

The Queen of England can be a royal pain if you dare to challenge her to remove her crown.

At the grand age of 81, the Queen is allowed to have an odd Victor Meldrew moment, she is probably one of the most photographed women in the world and knows how to pose and respond to their different requirements..

I would have expected a professional photographer to make it plain in advance the type of pictures he or she was after. These were official 80th birthday shots and required a formal look as she was dressed in the garter robes. Who knows what else led up this outburst, if it was the final straw.

I’ve been to a few press events with members of the royal family and the general rule of thumb seems to be that you do not speak to them unless they speak to you first. I haven’t broken any royal rules yet, I wondered if you had. Are your sympathies with the Queen or should we sympathise with Annie in trying to get that one extra shot?

Update: It appears that the BBC has apologised to the Queen and admitted it sexed up the story. Can we ever believe them again? And is it a crown the Queen is wearing, or a tiara?